Jeremiah 31:25, ‘For I satisfy the weary soul and fill up every soul who wastes away.’
There are times when we get so weary that we just want to fall apart, cry, and hide away. As Christians, one of the many wonderful things that God brings to our relationship with Him is that He calls out what the problem is. He not only knows that weariness will happen, but He calls it out for what it is. And, God is honest about what will happen and where we are emotionally. He knows, and lets us know, that we will get weary. What are some of the many ways we become weary?
WE GET WEARY WHEN MY EXPECTATIONS ARE UNMET.
The very definition of stress, it’s been said, is when the point at which we realize our expectations will not be met. What, or who, are we building our hopes on? What expectations do we have? Are we expecting these expectations to be met by others… or ourselves? We get let down again and again by ourselves and by others. No matter who is the cause of our stress, we get weary as the stress mounts.
WE GET WEARY BECAUSE OF SIN.
One of the greatest markers of knowing that you belong to Christ is that you mourn over sin. If you didn’t have a saving relationship with God, there wouldn’t be a struggle with sin. Certainly, you mourn and get weary over the sin of others; but you mourn and get weary more intensely over your own sin. The closer you grow to Jesus, the more you see His holy love for you. The more you see His holy love for you, the more you see that while God despises sin, He loves you and deeply desires that your love for Him grows. As your love for Him grows, the holier you become practically. In Romans 7:24, the apostle Paul understands the hatred for personal sin. We see this hatred and despondency when he cries out, ‘Wretched man that I am! Who will deliver me from the body of this death?’. We know that God knows sin is a definite impediment, a huge pothole, to growing closer to Christ. As a result of sin, our own and the sin of others, and the longer we live in this world… the more weary we get.
WE GET WEARY IN THE WORK.
For the Christian, the work that goes into bringing the Gospel to people, whether in evangelism or discipleship, won’t end until death or the return of Christ. Sin never takes a holiday, the flesh, the world and the devil continue to deceive, and death is always at work. And as we labor to ensure the Gospel is working in our personal lives and that it’s being brought to others, we know that Gospel work can get us to the point of being weary. Whether we’re financially paid or volunteering, the work of the Gospel is difficult. But God says about this in Galatians 6:9-10, “9 And let us not lose heart in doing good, for in due time we will reap if we do not grow weary. 10 So then, while we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, and especially to those who are of the household of the faith.’ . God has rewards for His people.
WE GET WEARY WAITING FOR CHRIST’S RETURN.
The apostle John penned the following in Revelation 22:20, ‘“Yes, I am coming quickly.” Amen. Come, Lord Jesus.’ He let us know that Jesus is coming quickly and with his “Amen”, John affirms Christ’s return. But not only that, John prayerfully says, “Come Lord Jesus.”. It’s a prayer that He knows will come to pass; Jesus Christ will return. But for now, the Bible says that creation groans (Romans 8:22). Why? Because we live in a sin condemned world. But for the Christian, like John, we know that there will be a day when Christ will return and He will make all things right. But in the meantime, we groan and we get weary in the waiting.
YOUR WEARINESS IS PURPOSEFUL.
Notice in Jeremiah 31:25 that it is possible that in our weariness God will allow us to waste away. But take heart, God’s providence is working. Like everything else in God’s economy, your weariness is purposeful; it has a purpose. Remember Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane; He was weary in His humanity. But His weariness drove Him to the Father where He would be satisfied in communion with His Father. Ultimately, for all the various purposes that God has for us in our weariness, isn’t that the main purpose for being weary… to bring us to the Father?.. to lean on Him, to trust in Him afresh, to collapse and say, “You revitalize my soul. I’ve learned, again, that task can only be done by You.”? How else will He fill us as we waste away, unless we go to Him?
PRACTICE GRACE.
Many times when we get weary it’s, again, because of stress; our expectations haven’t been met. And many times, more often than not, we have the potential to give ourselves a pass more than others. But hear the Word of the Lord as to how God the Holy Spirit can work grace in you to give to others:
Colossians 3:12-15, ‘12 So, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience; 13 bearing with one another, and graciously forgiving each other, whoever has a complaint against anyone, just as the Lord graciously forgave you, so also should you. 14 Above all these things put on love, which is the perfect bond of unity. 15 And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body, and be thankful.’
If there’s a time when you complain about someone, do you take the same amount of time to tell God how thankful you are for that person? Practice grace in your relationships.
BUT- GOD WILL SATISFY MY WEARY SOUL.
God will employ Himself to satisfy your weary soul:
Psalm 119:41, ‘May Your lovingkindnesses also come to me, O Yahweh, Your salvation according to Your Word;’
God will use His Word, primarily, to satisfy your soul:
Psalm 119:50, ‘This is my comfort in my affliction, That Your Word has revived me.’
God will use prayer to satisfy your weary soul:
Philippians 4:6-7, ‘6 Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and petition with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. 7 And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.’
God will use others to satisfy our weary soul:
2 Corinthians 1:3-4, ‘3 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, 4 who comforts us in all our affliction so that we will be able to comfort those who are in any affliction with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.’
In your weariness, God is your source to satisfy and fill you.
Christ’s Blessings to you,
Pastor Scott Welch